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The wedding events will take place in York Beach and Kittery, Maine, which are 10 minutes apart. We recommend that you fly into Boston, MA or Portland, ME and rent a car and drive. It is about 45 minutes from ether airport.
There are a lot of cute hotels, inns, bed & breakfasts, and Airbnbs in the area. We recommend finding something within a 10 minute drive to Kittery or York, which is the area that the wedding will be in!